THE SECRET SAUCE IS YOU🫦
​​I'm Phoenixx — self-love coach, movement mentor, and creatrix behind I CUM FIRST™.
Self-love is tattooed on my neck for a reason. This isn't a vibe I picked up from Pinterest. This is my life's work.
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After years of navigating relationships, sexuality, healing, and personal growth, I created this work because I’ve seen how many women are taught to prioritize everyone else before themselves.
Their partner.
Their family.
Their job.
Their existence.
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But rarely their own needs, desires, and truth.
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My work is about flipping the script.
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Through coaching, embodiment, and radical self-devotion practices, I help women reconnect with their confidence, pleasure, and personal power.
This work is bold, embodied, and a little bit naughty. Self-love is fucking powerful — not polite.
Together we will uncover how your mindset, emotional state, movement, career, relationships, spirituality, daily practices and sense of purpose affects your wellbeing, and explore concrete steps for you to shift your narrative and creating lasting, embodied change.
​And then we'll go even deeper than that...
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I use a combination of neuroscientific and holistic coaching techniques, Parts Work, somatics, breathwork and practical spirituality, offering you a true mind-body-soul approach to transformation, a unique approach that has been created to produce real results.
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So you can feel amazing in your body, happier in your everyday life and more connected to yourself than ever before!
If you are ready to shed old limiting beliefs, self-sabotaging behaviours and old habit patterns that no longer serve you so that you can FEEL AMAZING every day, I am here to guide you.
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​​​The I CUM FIRST™ movement, modalities and audacious merch is created for baddies who are horny for deeper self-devotion 💋
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When a woman learns to put herself first,
everything changes.
Her relationships.
Her confidence.
Her pleasure.
Her life.
This is the work.​